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Positive Thinkers are willing to Change

ROADMAP TO POSITIVE THINKING-PART-II-CHANGE

Acceptance and Understanding Ourselves, the Power of Prayer and Inspirations (getting inspired) have been the starting steps of our roadmap. Let us move forward positively.

WELCOME AND EMBRACE CHANGE

Overcome resistance to change, which is one of the major causes of irritation, uncertainty and our discomfort. This also generates negative thoughts, vibes and saps all our energy.

Do we want to draw comfort ONLY form the past and the old order? NO. We want to move forward.

Do we want to be called have-been and relics of the past? NO.

Do we want to be with it, in synch with the present world order, irrespective of our age or gender? YES.

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Then let us welcome change. We have to flow with the times but should not try to topple every sensible order of things.

  • Change is the only Constant in life and we should whole-heartedly welcome today’s world order, which itself is dynamically changing.
  • Change does appear somewhat scary at each stage of our life, e.g. when we move from the school to college to a job to another career option, when we leave our parents, when we have to get married etc.
  • Don’t we all go through the above changes, even if with certain reservations? Yes. Why should we then have reservations about the current state of technology, or the competition or for that matter the kind of music, way of dressing etc. popular today?
  • Let us not lament about ‘generation gap or disconnect’ (valid for both younger and older citizens).  The famous actor Amitabh Bachhan says that he actually wants to dress like his son! So why not us also?
  • India is a young country with 50% population under 25years of age. The young have tremendous exposure and are technology savvy. Both the age groups can learn and benefit form each other. Let us acknowledge it and multiply the knowledge.
  • Respect elders for their love and experience and youth for their energy, passion and dynamism.
  • Let us continuously re-invent ourselves.
  • We should change for the better, to add value to ourselves and to our thinking. It also brings new challenges and hence excitement.
  • Change brings FRESHNESS and new perspectives. We change the clothes on our body to change our MOOD. Likewise positive change in our thinking is like changing covers for our soul and is VERY UPLIFTING.

WHAT NOT TO CHANGE

While advocating change, we should understand that stability is important and familiarity is comforting. Let us NOT RUSH to change everything but take well reasoned decisions.

  • Not to change the LIFE PARTNER, but to change our attitude towards each other for greater compatibility and harmony.
  • Not to change our CORE VALUES imbibed from our parents, teachers, scriptures and the society.
  • TRUTH is eternal. Emotion of LOVE is always profound. COMPASSION purifies the soul. HONESTY is a time-tested virtue, critical for our soul and self esteem.

Let us not attempt to change these and other bedrock foundations of our very being and the society.

> Let us not try to change the WORLD ORDER (unless some of us are true leaders or red-blooded crusaders)
> LET US NOT ATTEMPT TO CHANGE OTHERS, BUT ONLY TO CHANGE OURSELVES, i.e. OUR ATTITUDE.

> We should NOT attempt TRANSFORMATIONAL CHANGE and should note that INCREMENTAL CHNAGES will surely but steadily transform us.

CONCLUSION

A change in OUR MINDSET will remove many ingrained resistances form within us and allow the STREAM OF POSITIVE THOUGHTS to infuse our beings.

ARUN VEDHERA

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10 Responses to “Positive Thinkers are willing to Change”

  1. DEEPAK says:

    YOU HAVE RIGHTLY ADVOCATED THE TIME TESTED SECRETS OF HAPPY LIFE. WE HAVE BEEN TOLD THIS VERY FACT IN ALL THE COURSRS OF ART OF LIVING WITH THE BLESSINGS OF OUR GURUJI SHRI SHRI RAVISHANKAR JI .AND MANY HAVE TRANSFORMED THEIR LIFE

  2. sunil kumar says:

    thse article is key to sucess.

  3. Saifullah says:

    sir,
    i am to frustered with my own life in these days because some one was my lover and she is getting married because i m not established i m doing practice in allahabad and now fresher so i have no more ability noow to earn money for a family maintainance what i do give me the best advice because i imagine very bad impression of my lover like she is doing kissing hugging etc with his husband oviously it is true but i donot want to think about her.but will u understand my position. what i do

  4. Dhayalan says:

    Please arrange to make a print out of this copy. i find some difficulties that there is no
    where easy to find the note of taking ” print this full story “. if this kind of article can be printed out and issued to people who were going to prepare exam and to be used to people
    who are required to use ( negative thinking people ), then the effort of publishing the article is achieved. i hope this request will be considered positively. thanks in advance.

  5. Tanmayee says:

    You’ve truly enlightened us about the “LAW OF CHANGE” in life. This law is made by the divine nature and it is our duty to follow this law. I hope you will publish more such articles in future to liberate the minds of the young and upcoming generations.
    Thank You!!!

  6. Saumya says:

    Thanks a lot for the wonderful article 🙂
    I feel that my random thoughts have found words, so coherently composed…what more can i say?

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  10. Bhupinder says:

    Sir,

    Nowadays I am frusterataed about my life I don’t know where I am going. failure go side by side to me My father is only bread earner in our family and i am the only son of him but can’t succeed yet in my life sometime i thought to commit suicide bcoz nothing is right with me and a big question mark on my face what to do in my life plz help me

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